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And the specific date of the separation can be important.So, it is best that a divorcing spouse sets a date that is easily verified.
But this does not mean that you or your spouse has to move out of the marital residence.Rediscover yourself, and be comfortable with being single for a bit. My (ex) Husband and I seperated for good 6 months ago. Waiting for the divorce is not a gurantee that you are ready to date.Really our marriage had been dissolving for over a year. Then I began dating and meeting people, just for fun. It took me 2 yrs and I dated someone 6 months after I was separated..me, that was not good. Then, due to my inability to make good choices, I dated some riff raff along the way.Try not to fall into that trap because you don't want to be with someone similar to the one you left.You will shortly find yourself again and know what you are looking for in a man/woman. If you were "alone" for a good period of time, mentally/physically or in other ways while in a relationship, than you are ready anytime after you get out. However, if you jump from one relationship to a new one (without mental/emotional time apart)..it might be too soon.